This article on MSNBC today really burns me up, Report: Alleged Libya rape victim arrives in US. Alleged. ALLEGED?! That word feels so accusatory to me. Here is what Merriam-Webster says about Alleged:
: asserted to be true or to exist <an alleged miracle>
: accused but not proven or convicted <an alleged burglar>
— al·leg·ed·ly\-ˈle-jəd-lē\ adverb
Examples of ALLEGED
- The alleged thief was arrested.
- He denied the alleged conspiracy.
And what my Thesaurus comes up with:
OK….OK….I understand it’s not proven, maybe she’s lying. But maybe she’s telling the TRUTH! When it comes to rape, why is the victim painted in such a poor light? What about the accused? Yes, yes, headlines often read “accused rape suspect”….but why put the woman (or man for that matter) under scrutiny that they did something wrong? Who the cares if they were drunk, dressed provocatively or “asking for it”. If someone says NO, it means fucking NO!!!
Not only did she report being raped, she reported being gang raped.
This world can really SUCK sometimes you know?
I hope she finds solace and reassurance in what must be a very emotionally taxing time for her. That she has someone to lean on. That will listen to her. And truly believe she is telling the truth.
I’m inclined to believe her…